NEGATIVE THOUGHTS

Something that we just can't let go off .. everyday there will be something bothering us and darn we hate it so much. I have been talking a lot about Law of Attraction .. you attract things that you think about and yah bad things still comes to you although you do not want to think about. Some may say; "How am I not to think about DEBT .. hey the banks keep on calling me, I get wonderful love letters from them .. HOW HOW!!" Sick isn't it .. you wanna be positive but the world is just not helping. Switch on the news, they will talk about financial breakdown, Harian Metro well I do not need to say much about it, over teh tarik with friends will talk about their family/financial problems .. just can't run away from it all huh.
All these negativity you are not to resist it .. "Resist It Persist" the more you say NO to it .. the more it will just keep on coming back. This is a good book that I recommend you to read, How to Stop Worrying and Start Living - Dale Carnegie. In his book .. he gave lots of daily experiences that he met along his journey .. well from all the stories I came to a conclusion that negativity is actually something good for us to have if we realise it as :-

1. We tend to be grateful for what we already have
2. We know what was the mistakes that we did in the past
3. We start to understand how our mind works .. the weak links
4. We know where we are standing
5. About check and balance .. what are we focusing at
6. Making us realise that we are still human
7. Seeking the power of intention
8. Seeking the Source, God

Negativity is something that need to be understood and accepted. Yes need to be accepted, else you just keep on living in denial. This is where the power of will comes into play .. that willing to detach your thoughts from being influence by those negativities. Before going into detachment lets understand on how to accept negativity.
Accepting negativity .. you just have to be cold towards this .. accept without having any feelings towards it, just know that it is there that problem and be glad it exsist. To clear it from your thoughts do EFT .. I recommend you to do these videos:

1. when you feel stress
   
2. do this upon waking up
3. do this upon coming back from work
4. about the current world issue

As I have brief earlier about EFT .. it such a powerful tool which everyone can use it. It will be much better if you do into deeper .. that is understanding and listening to your innerself. Well this you need to meditate .. I do recommend Vipassana Meditation but praying is another way of meditation well if you do it right. When I mean by doing it right, by focusing to The Source and ignoring everything else surrounding you, listening to your own thoughts without processing it .. just accept as it is. Mmmmpphh sounds kindda hard .. it is not with a bit of practise and consistent you can get it. Master Key System by Charles Haanel is a step by step guide into meditation .. do not worry has nothing to do with Religion.

Accepting negativity as it is .. well that's the key .. and knowing that the universe is shaping to make things better, FAITH well that is a strong word .. Faith that it is happening as you are reading this. Believing that you have all the power and desire making it a reality. That reality has to be in your mind .. now .. be happy, joyful, thankful NOW things are working out well for you.

You manage to do this .. well you just manage to detach yourself from that negative thoughts. Detachment and never resist as RESIST PERSIST .. the more you saying to yourself I am not having this problem (Debt or Anger for example) well you are telling to the universe to The Source .. I am having it and wanting it more. State of Denial that is what you are and not until you can break free from it .. well your life is just going on a repeatition mode.

For this post please do read these books as it will guide you further:

1. Practicing the Power of Now - Eckhart Tolle
2. How to Stop Worrying and Start Living - Dale Carnegie
   

HOW QMP WORKS .. PART2

As things are still new to all of us .. we are yet to get our office set up properly to conduct proper training and seminars. This does not mean QMP has not started; now we do life coaching where we meet in person usually over coffee after office hours. We provide audio, visual and reading materials relating to The Law of Attraction and The Law of The Universe. It is more of on going training relating to daily life, problems at work, family, relationship .. where we help to identify what you have been wrongly focus in your life and to change that focus to what you actually want.

On average we do have to agree that the best way to identify if one is having a better life can be measure by the wealth that he is earning. As what being mentioned earlier wealth is about total wealth; money, love, health etc. The easiest to measure will be money and to that QMP uses this to evaluate the understanding of our members in implementing The Law of Attraction. At the same time QMP is about creating a power circle in which all members have the opportunity to access and work with.

This is the structure, the stages QMP has laid down for all members to follow:-

1. Power circle; is the most important thing to have as this create the right environment for all members to be in. To be rich you have to be with the rich; to be poor just remain with them that are poor. All about the energy transfer between us; some may known it as aura. We will go into more detail how everyone can get involve in enlarging the group and at the same time get rewarded for it; yes we intend to make you richer as that is how QMP measure the level of understanding among the members.
2. Investment; this will be the next step as it requires a higher mind strength and capital. Among the investment that QMP has identified are properties, forex and share market as we have 'Gurus' that can guide us.
3. Your Dream Business; with all the knowledge that you have gain, with the capital that you have build and the networking of specialist that you help created .. use all these in creating the dream business that you have been desiring.

We have seen so many people succeed in their life and usually the key factor will be the team they are with. QMP is here to create a Level 5 leader as mentioned in Good to Great by Jim Collins and that leader is YOU.

PRINCIPLES VS OPINIONS

We tend to live our life in two different methods the opinion method in which resulting to a boring life, a challenging life, a shitty life, unstable life and we tend to wonder what did we do wrong while the principle method in which resulting to a well plan life, organised, goal driven and always in control of our life.
The simplest is by living a life to do things of what others suggested us to do by their opinions, by trusting that they have gone through it and succeeded. How we dress, how we eat, how we talk, how we think, how we behave etc and all these became our behaviour and a way of life in which it was once someone else. We are losing our own identity and as we can see today there are lots of Angelina Jolie, Brad Pitt, Will Smith, Tupac wanna be .. well directly or indirectly we are influenced by all these superstars.
When it comes to living by principles, it is a bit hard working well you first need to know who are you, what are your like and dislike, how strong is your faith in yourself even in God to see it through, can you accept to think/behave differently then others, are you sure with yourself and how strong is your mindset. You create your own life, your own identity and your own destiny.

Opinions : -

1. A belief or conclusion held with confidence but not substantiated by positive knowledge or proof.
2. A judgment based on special knowledge and given by an expert.
3. A judgment or estimation of the merit of a person or thing.
4. The prevailing view.
5. A formal statement by a court or other adjudicative body of the legal reasons and principles for the conclusions of the court.

In our life we are so used to live by opinions, often we hear this from our parents: 'If you wanna make it in life you have to do .....blah blah blah........ because that is how I made it here today.' Or from a teacher: 'You need to be a lawyer, doctor, engineer ........ that can make you rich.' Or from a friend: 'She might not be the right person for you as she is the homely person while you the socialite person.' Well that are opinions from a person point of view, well sometimes it might work with you but sometimes it does not. But human are being taught to be safe then sorry and we just follow those opinions most of the time even though it is not something that we like. Been is such situation? Who have not? Sadly most of the time when we follow ones opinion, we tend not to be happy with the results.

An example: I did very well in Maths during my school days and to that people around me been expressing their opinions that I would be very good in Electrical/Electronics Engineering and somehow I tend to agree with the idea but deep inside then I was keen to go into business school. Well I manage to get through college and university and that was it. My first job was with an oil&gas company and I never been in the electronics industry .. except of diy at home. Well now I am in this industry of coaching and I am enjoying it much. If only I had follow my heart and decided to attend business school I might have discovered my passion long long time ago instead of going through numbers of work that I do not enjoy doing. If only I had principles, if only I have followed my heart.

Principles:-

1. an accepted or professed rule of action or conducts.
2. a fundamental, primary, or general law or truth from which others are derived.
3. a personal or specific basis of conduct or management
4. an adopted rule or method for application in action
5. a determining characteristic of something; essential quality.
6. an actuating agency in the mind or character, as an instinct, faculty, or natural tendency

Some call it gut, some call it feeling, some call it principles .. it is that strong urge that is within you telling you to act on what you think is right. Well you are always right as what Henry Ford said: 'If you say no, you are right and if you say yes, you are also right.' One that have a strong principles are those that have a good balance of mind, body and soul where they communicate between themselves and resulting of making the right decision 90% of the time. 10% of wrong decisions are just as a reminder that there are things within us that need to be polished. They have set their mind/goal and will persue it regardless of what other may think of it, "well it is just an opinion and I thank you for your support," the strength in their desire of wanting to achieve it.

An example: When we started this group QMP, well many did say it is something can't be done, we are not doctors having PHD etc, our life at one point was doomed to hell and we were not even religious scholars. These are among the few opinions that we received but we ignore it all. It was more of our intention, of our desire, of our principles that leads to where we are today. The knowledge keeps on coming The Secret, Science of Getting Rich, What The @@%^@^, Master Key System, Emotional Freedom Techniques and so on so on just never stops and we are grateful for it all. All these knowledge are basically free and it is so easy that you do not need to be a rocket scientist to make it work. When we work within our principles, the results are just something that we have expected and these made us understood about who we are and the mission that we need to carry out in this life.

Opinions yes we do need as it open up more into understanding the principles of your own life. It is a balance of mind, body and soul agreeing to the opinion and making it as a principle that work for you. The discovering of that principle we tend to ignore which made us just another person, nothing special, living day to day life and just counting the days for this life to end.